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We considered surrogacy after many failed IVF – Banky W reveals
<p>Nigerian singer, Bankole Wellington popularly known as <strong>Banky W</strong> has revealed how he and his wife considered surrogacy after many failed IVF.</p>
<p>He disclosed this on Monday during his tell-it-all video on his Youtube channel.</p>
<p>“Everyday one rumor or the other about us on the internet, some said I was impotent or my wife was barren. Sometimes these people are just projecting their hurt on us.</p>
<p>“We had IVF before we lost the twins. In all, we had three failed IVFs.</p>
<p>“We considered surrogacy and had a surrogate at the time but we decided we were not going to do anything anymore to get a child,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>He revealed that he told his wife to let God have his way as he consider adopting a child.</p>
<p>“We decided to stay one year without trying anything and trust God or adopt if that’s what God wants. Within that year of trusting God, we got good news,” he added.</p>
<p>Speaking on her struggle with pregnancy, Adesua Etomi said, &#8220;Some said I’m barren, you did something with your womb. I heard all sorts and every single time I heard that i just went back to God telling him to show himself, since I serve him faithfully, he should let them know I serve him. I kept telling God they are mocking you not me.</p>
<p>“I felt like God was not coming through, it was like a monthly breakdown. We had multiple failed IVF, I have veins in my hand that no longer work.</p>
<p>“IVF is a tasking thing emotional, physically and very tough for any woman.</p>
<p>“During that period of IVF, I was bloated and people thought I was pregnant but it was really a tough period for me. The second IVF did not work at all.”</p>